SUMMARY :
Any discourse on love connects the word "love" with the word "forever".
It expresses one's desire for the other, or a desire for what will be returned
by the other. Mirror like, this love appears essentially narcissistic, for it
is mainly an expectation to be loved according to one's personal interpretation
of the meaning of love. When occurs the difference between the reality of the
other, who is not me, and the restrictive image I have of him/her, then arise
disappointments and reproaches, those tricks of desire. Desire, then, attempts
to crush its old idol.
Such is one of the crucial aspects of the subconscious building-up of the couple,
it is what makes us seek the love bond. We shall attempt to understand the dimension
of the deceit related to the discourse of love, which works as a snare. Such
discourse tells of a union without conflicts or flaws, referring to the construction
of our story, as if love and sexuality could prevent differences, loss or death.